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Rajput
poshak:
the traditional dress of women of Rajput
community in the north-western Indian state,
Rajasthan; consists of kanchli (inner-wear with sleeves),
waist-length kurta (a sleeveless blouse), ghagra (pleated skirt), and
odhna (long, flowing veil).
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First,
there is the color: blue, royal blue, eye-wateringly blue.
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Jodhpur,
India, June 2010:
Since
I first began blogging in April 2011, the most popular post on my
blog, I
am Just a Visual Person
till
date happens
to be the one about the Rajput poshak. Glancing at statistics
identifying traffic sources bringing visitors to my blog, 'Rajput
poshak' often pops up in the list. There are people in Hong Kong,
Sweden, United Arab Emirates, and France all turning to the virtual
world to learn more about the poshak. Their fascination in turn
never fails to fascinate me.
My
own preoccupation with the poshak happened only recently. I had grown
up seeing women dressed in the poshak whenever I visited my home
state, Rajasthan; yet, it was if I was seeing through
them, almost as if viewing them upon a mannequin. I only suddenly
desired to wear it when I attended a distant cousin's wedding in the
summer of 2010 in Jodhpur. During the musical celebrations, I
observed that six of his girl cousins had worn the poshak in multiple
marriages of color, texture, and shades: turquoise and rose-pink,
lime-green and orange, satin and net, and tie and dye and gold-lurex
embroidery. When they moved about the wedding grounds, they appeared
like sartorial swans, gracefully separate from the rest of us. Later,
as they shimmered and shimmied about on the stage amid the faux and
real flowers, traditional Rajasthani musical notes seeping into the
hot, monsoon-pregnant air, I felt transported into an alternate,
genteel reality.
I decided
to get a set made for myself.
Unlike the
sari, which is recognizably a pan-Indian garment and whose appearance
and presentation varies from state to state, the poshak is distinct
and indigenous to Rajasthan. While I have never been averse to
wearing traditional Indian garments, such as the salwar-kameez [tunic
and loose/straight-cut trousers] I never ventured into wearing the
sari simply because I had yet not mastered the art of draping it. I
publicly declaimed the significance of the sari still continuing to
be relevant in contemporary India, unlike, say, the status of the
kimono in Japan where it largely held ritual significance. Yet, in
private, I hardly wore the sari, perceiving both the act of placing
and wearing the sari as cumbersome.
I should
also mention that the aforementioned blog-post is not exclusively
about the poshak; it is also about the Hindi film, Zubeida
(2000), which revolves around a feisty,
head-strong Muslim girl, Zubeida who marries a Rajput king, who once
ruled a princely state [prior to Independence, India was formerly
ruled by British and princely states]. The film is set in newly
post-Independent India, where princely rulers were renegotiating
their political place in the new social and political order and
unlearning to rule. It was therefore a time of metamorphosis and
unbreaking rules – and in midst of this, we witness Zubeida
transitioning from 50s Bombay saree soiree chic into a Rajput
princess, wearing petal-hued chiffons and pearls and gorgeous,
elaborate poshak with delicate Rajasthani jewlery.
Was it a
yearning for donning the romance of that elegant, bygone era? What I
associated with the poshak was a regal elegance and which was easily
accessible. For me, it was bit like jigsawing a puzzle together: I
simply had to slip into the dual panelled top and the wide,
ankle-length skirt and drape the odhna around me – and that was
that. Wearing it would make me feel not as much exotic as much as
exotically anonymous, as if I had jettisoned off the various layers
constituting my identity: Indian, living in Oman, born in Australia,
spoke Hindi but dreamt in English. The poshak would wear me and I
would wear it: for me, it was the ultimate costume.
**
July
2011, Jodhpur, India:
The next
summer, one of my relatives told me about the best place in town to
purchase and have the poshak material tailored. After navigating
numerous labyrinthine arteries of alleys in the heart of old Jodhpur,
we finally found ourselves facing the facade of a nondescript
two-story whitewashed shop. Upon entering the shop, we stood at the
edge of a large room entirely covered with acres of fabric in
multitude shades and patterns – and dozens of women examining and
critiquing them. “What are you looking for?” A slight man in
gold-framed spectacles asked me. “A poshak,” I murmured. “What
for?” I wondered how exactly to put it that I simply wanted a
poshak to dress up in. The last time I had attended a costume party
was at university and it was an unoriginal costume even then. Owning
this poshak would be the closest thing to dressing up in costume,
transforming myself into an aristocratic Rajput lady, apogee of
elegance and grace. “I have been wanting to get a set made for
quite sometime,” I finally said.
“We sell
material for every-day poshaks here...why don't you go up for the
more fancy ones?” he said. Upstairs, wherever I looked, I glimpsed
stacks of poshaks wrapped up in plastic and sitting behind
glass-fronted wall cabinets or laid out on the thin grubby-white
cotton-sheeted mattresses; adjacent to the room, there were
ceiling-high bales of freshly dyed fabrics in a tiny storeroom. I
longed to go there, feast my eyes upon all that gluttony of color.
Meanwhile, the noises and smells of the street drifted into the room
from the balconies – but they were incidental to the atmosphere,
like an irrelevant, random thought.
It did not
take me long to purchase my poshak despite the overwhelming buffet of
choices offered; the salesman efficiently helped me pick out a
chiffon-overlaid satin poshak with net dupatta in royal blue and
embroidered with a constellation of golden gota [gold-lurex] buds.
Glimpsing the material, I could hardly await its abstraction into the
poshak – and how it would feel like to wear it.
As I was
leaving the shop, the salesman called out to ask me as to what
jewelry I was planning to pair the poshak with. “If you want to
bring out the beauty of the dress, you should only wear Rajput
jewelry,” he said, directing me to the whimsically named
Fancy-stores, where you could buy practically anything to dress up
your wrists and hair and hands and fingers. “Will you cover your
head? Will you wear bangles? Where will you wear it?” The questions
rained down upon me. “I will be wearing it outside of India,” I
finally told them. “Good, good,” one of them said, visibly
pleased. “The foreigners should know what the Rajput poshak is all
about.”
A week
later, I got a call from the shop: the poshak was ready. I went and
collected the parcel: it was immaculately packaged in cellophane and
adorned with a gota bow. I was both reluctant and longing to open it.
In the end, it took me almost two years to eventually open the
package and wear it. There was never a good enough time or occasion
or place to wear it. In the meantime, I had another poshak – burnt
pink and gold - tailored for my wedding ceremony, when I would walk
around the holy fire seven times and become wedded to my husband. It
was my third outfit for the day and when I was changing, I remember
feeling disappointed for it fit badly, hanging loosely and vaguely
from my frame: it looked like it had been made for another person.
Perhaps, it was: memories of that night were a fluid blur, much like
the poshak, as I transitioned from one life to another. I have packed
it away along with the rest of my other wedding outfits. But the
royal blue poshak still awaited its story.
**
September,
2013: London, United Kingdom
I am at
another wedding: my best friend got married a few hours ago in a
stately Roman Catholic church. Her bridesmaids and I, the maid of
honor, had been identically hued in sea-green saris; now, as we
changed for the reception to be held later that night, I reverently
unpacked my royal-blue poshak. Slipping it on, tying up the blouse
strings and adjusting the skirt, I was relieved that this poshak at
least fit me perfectly. As I walked through the avenue of mirrors
lining the hotel lobby, I felt like a comet of blue, this surreal
Rajput transplant in a wedding reception in a hotel in middle of
London. Throughout that night, I felt the glamour of make-believe
constantly brush past me, deliciously out of the orbit constituting
my normal life.
The
reception concluded, as we bid farewell to our newly married friend,
one of the hotel staff rushed in, cradling a massive bouquet of
chrysanthemums in her hands: they gleamed cold pink, orange, and
yellow and she was contemplating what to do with them. My friend and
I offered to take them and as we waited outside the hotel for our
cab, cradling the mums in my arms and the blue of the odhna threaded
in between the stems, I idly reflected that my poshak and the night
ceiling mirrored each other, a contented party of mutual admiration.
**
October,
2013, Pittsburgh, United States:
I am now in
my new home. The poshak tidily sits in a package in my suitcase,
which houses all my traditional clothes and that I occasionally wear
in my life here. Whenever I open the suitcase and the saris and
salwar-suits and the poshak come tumbling out, I can't help but feel
that it is the equivalent of a dress-up box found in playrooms and
drama classes, where you could borrow a quirky shoe or a pink feather
boa and assume another self. When I unfold the poshak and lay out its
royal blueness upon the terrain of my present life, I see so many
things escape its folds and rise in the air: Rajasthan, Rajput
princesses, elegance, chic, beauty, and nostalgic texture. The air
subsequently becomes charged and heady – and this is why costumes
are such necessary things, to remind us that it is good to come out
and play every once in a while.
**
This piece was originally published in the online literary journal, Equals Record's Masks and Costumes issue here
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